The
process wedding ceremony in Padang
Every area
has different process of wedding ceremony. They have a unique process each
other. Talking about the process wedding ceremony in Minangkabau especially in
Padang is familiar, but they just know a little bit except those who passed. I will
tell you about the wedding process in Padang consist of several stages.
The first
step is maresesk, the woman’s family
came to man’s family. The woman’s family brings some cakes, fruits and etc
according to the manners eastern culture. The process talks about whether the
couple will match. And there occurs the negotiations about take place several
times until an agreement both of family. The second is maminang. The woman’s family come to groom house for validating the
wedding procession. The woman’s family come with complete set of sirih, carano and etc. the third step is
mahanta, the family of groom regroup
each other. The process attended by mamak, his father’s brothers, the brother
who had married, the same with the woman’s family. The fourth step is babako-babaki, this event held before
the procession. Prospective bride bring some tradition foods. The next day,
prospective brides carried back to his house. The next step is groom taken,
this is most important tradition. Grooms taken to the woman’s house to carry
out the procession. Generally, the woman’s family have to take complete carano, singgang ayam,nasi kuning and
complete the man’s dress and other requirements. And after that is the procession
of akad nikah. Usully, it held in the
woman’s house or mosque. This process must belong to rule of custom. And the
last is bitting in pelaminan. The bride
wait guests that have invited. This wedding ceremony will complete with a music
and tradition foods.
That’s
all about the process wedding ceremony in Padang. A wedding will valid if follow the rule of
procession. After have done all rules, a wedding is officially. It looks like complicated
but as an original inhabitant we must do it. It is respect for our culture.